GosuKanojo Apology.

Well, It came to this.

I've apologized to the ones affected, but I still feel like this has a place here.

From September until mid-October I was in the guild "Starlight" (which was known as Obsidian at the time).

I had some incidents.

Some were heated arguments, some were mistreatment by accident (never realized I'm treating someone poorly, sadly), some were bad jokes, some were sexual jokes.

I wasn't really aware on the issue until later on, but at that point - I've transferred to the guild Ours (nothing wrong with Starlight/Obsidian, they are amazing people, and a great guild overall).

Then at Ours, I felt good. I felt like home. Matt was friendly, EmoDucky was a pleasure to talk with, Zonith.. FeistyFox.. Egwene.. so many nice people, and I felt like I've made the right decision.

I've felt comfortable to be myself. then here is the issue - as a person, I enjoy dark humor / sexual humor, obviously with tact and with care to the people around me.

So I make a lot of jokes, and mostly? people laugh. what I didn't realize is that not everybody laughed, and It wasn't as funny, as Matt got some complaints. (turns out my old leader from Starlight got complaints too, I was just never informed of them).

I wasn't aware of them until an unfortunate incident with the Totoro guild, when my accidental mistreatment caused a huge mess, which I've apologized many times for and I apologize again right now - I'm sorry for what happened, I meant something else and understood something else, I never thought that a misunderstanding could cause this, and could hurt anybody that much.

the 15th of November was the last straw, and I was completely kicked out of "Ours".

I was shocked first, but then realized after (thankfully) everything was put straight in front of my face.

I've caused inconveniences I never realized I did, and I caused issues I never knew I did up until that moment.

The thing is - when I see my mistakes, I learn fast.

And for the past 1 month and a half, I'm trying to improve as a person, and as a player.

This thread is to publicly apologize to anyone I was mistreating, hurting, disrespecting, making uncomfortable, and overall everybody that felt negative emotions from me.

What I do request, since it happened multiple times - please let this whole thing just die down in the past, cause most incidents happened back at september-october as I recall.

Let this be in the past. It really hurts that I'm being ghosted, ignored, and kicked out of places because of stuff that happened in October, which some was taken out of context.

I do want to mention that my previous guild leaders are in decent terms with me, and I'm thankful for that, and this thread is for everybody who I might have affected with my past behavior.

 

You're forgiven bro!

 

luckily I wasn't involved in any of the dramas you mentioned, but man this is a "proper" apology. Have fun mapling!

 

I've already mentioned in private that everything between us is fine.
Hope the other players drop it considering it didn't involve them.