How do you persue women?

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Obviously you chase them down and cast your net upon them.

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kidding

Guys: if you're in a relationship, how did it happen? Mutual friends? Relentless effort? Or did it kind of just happen. A lot of us are young adults and all this technology has affected the way we go about forming meaningful romantic relationships

If you're not in a relationship, but have been how did you go about. If you never have been in one what would you do if you found the right person?

Ladies: don't mean to leave you out, but what's it like traditionally getting pursued by men? And do you prefer making the first move?

Heterosexual relationships seem like they thrive on not really being sure what the other wants. It's weird. -This is a sub topic of a paper I need to write for a class thought it'd be fun to ask royals too!-

 

Just do your own thing (that’s what I do)We’re human, we cross paths and communicate all the time, something is bound to happen. And if you are looking for a relationship, be honest, not being who you are and changing to fit a relationship role is most likely not going to work, unless you plan on playing that role your whole life.

 

I'm going to talk, instead, about how not to pursue women. Specifically, don't.

Being pursued by men is frequently uncomfortable. Unwanted conversation, unwanted touch, even physical intimidation. I think the latter is largely unintentional, but it happens nonetheless.

Put it out there that you're interested, perhaps along with a small gesture, like bringing her coffee. Don't assume that a woman who seems disinterested is playing hard to get. Especially if she outright rejects you. Take her response at face value, and either be available without being intrusive or move on. While it's true that some small minority of women like to play hard to get and be pursued, that's the minority. I've literally never heard a woman complain that a man gave up too easily, but men not knowing when to piss off is absolutely epidemic.

Please, just let her do her grocery shopping/ride the subway/go to class. Please don't touch her unless she touches you first. Please don't stand blocking her path so that she has to either ask you to move or push past you. Don't make passive aggressive social media posts about being "friendzoned;" you were never a romantic prospect to begin with. Please don't find excuses to be alone with her, stare, and wax poetic about how good she smells or how pretty her hair is.

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Your penis isn't nearly as interesting as you might suppose. There are billions just like it, and if she wants one, she knows how and where to get it.

 

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Met my wife on EMS. My IGN was Bögsaku. Literally Gay-saku in Swedish, made it as a joke with one of my Swedish friends but it ended up becoming my main character. My wife saw me in free market and followed me around calling me gay slurs lol. She joined my guild and was a complete troll. Was considering kicking her... we got on skype and started playing left for dead and COD4 as well as other games. Later when BF3 was released we got really active on there. 2000 hours spent gaming together on BF3 in the end. She flew to my country for vacation and we met up. Went back and forth between countries, 2 months here, 3 months there, etc. Got tired of all the flying and the expenses of it. So we got married so she could live in my country after 3 years of dating back and forth. Been married for 2 years now and have a 8 month old baby. gg

 

How I get all my women.

Step 1: be a drug dealer or have lots of drugs on hand.

Step 2: ask if they wanna smoke n' chill or go out.

Step 3: Get hella fucked up with each other and have fun

Step 4: Uber THOT back home

 

@Don Your time to shine fam!

 

But I learned from you!

 

My GF was the one who pursued me on here. To be honest I really wasn't interested initially because I knew she was far away from me and I knew I'd never see her knowing how I've lived all 22 years (at the time) of my life on the east coast of the USA. Why would I ever bother falling in love and being able to actually see her?

I have no real advice since I've only had one girlfriend and for good reasons IMO. I'am not that experienced with girls and don't pretend to be but here is a lil' story with it being my most helpful contribution possible to this topic.

I've never made a first move. I was asked out by girls in the past but I've never asked a girl out. I just flow with the wind, usually. There was a couple girls who I really liked but I was too scared to be the man/lost interest so nothing ever happened. Then our Guild Master of the late Wisdom (RIP) introduces me to a newish recruit and the three of us chat. I think it was in "Hidden Street: Marr's Forest" and then after our GM left we moved to the top of Ellinia. It was just me and her and we just talked for a long time. Talked about life and the usual awkward stuff like weather after awhile haha. We did PPQ which really got us together among other stuff but then I started slowly drifting away from her after coming back to reality that I felt I had no future with her. I realized this was just a game and again, I probably would never met this girl who is 3,000ish miles from me, so why bother? All I wanted was to level up my Buccaneer. I was ready to quit the guild with a friend and go back to Oblivion or somewhere. But one day our GM came on and randomly disbanded the guild without saying a word... he was quitting. None of us could believe it. Soon after, Radiance was created by her to get back the family he created and abruptly almost ended. I decided to give it a shot again and apologized for being a dick to her by ignoring her for two weeks and making her really upset. She for some reason forgave me. We just slowly fell in love and eventually met each other twice this year. We video chat daily since I grew the cojones to officially ask her if she wanted to be my GF. So I guess eventually I made a move but if it wasn't for her first move, I wouldn't be typing this.

Not all guys have to make the first move but if just under the certain circumstances and she has a crush on you, it could be the girl! This sever gave us the opportunity to meet. In a million years I woulda never thought that. Still madly in love with each other I'll say I hope I never have to learn what it is like to have to make the first move...

 

Well, my previous post is how I met my wife. If you just want to get laid, be white in the Carribean. The country I'm from is 80% black, I was the only white guy in my entire high school for 2 years, 600 students. I had girls go out with me because quote, "I want my baby to have blue eyes and nice hair". Jamaican girl I dated senor year said she was just trying to lighten up the family. It can get a bit annoying though, I've always kept my hair cut close. Guys and girls would just randomly touch my hair to feel the "spiky-ness". Good times

 

I just came here to read virgins give advice to each other.

 

Hey bb I don't mean to brag but I have 100 AP resets

 

I literally opened this thread just to comment: if you're phrasing it as "pursuing women" you're definitely doing this whole thing wrong.

And this is coming from a dude not interested in women lul

 

Usually I make a move but past couple months I took my foot off the burners coz these hoes and crackheads aren't worth it.

But a girl from the college that I work at made the first move and I was cool with that we just gotta keep it on the low but dw it's nothing weird we are same age haha I'm just staff and she's student I gotta be careful.

For me it goes both ways. You look but don't find sometimes. Or you look and you find. Sometimes you do nothing and it comes to you.

 

Casual detachment and food. Let them come to you.

 

Not interested In women either but I didn't really see the issue with the title....until now as I'm saying it out loud.
I wouldn't want to be pursued.

But what else would you say that isn't demeaning?

 

How do you get a girlfriend?* How do you romance a woman? How do you seek out female companionship?

*Let's be honest, that's the accurate title.

 

Uhhhhhhh

 

haha bro, i told her my range and my level. nothing makes a female more moist than hearing about my 3.1k clean range PRE-BB

srs