How do you persue women?

Did you intend to quote me, perhaps?

 

****** so thirsty it irks me
You keep on putting bitches over money but that ain't my cup of tea though
Nah *****, the game is to get
A bunch of paper just to change your fucking neighbors and shit
I swear if ****** put half
Of what they put in chasing ass into a craft
By now you'd be famous and rich

-> "Is She Gon Pop" by J.Cole

Dont "persue" anything but the mesos dawg

 

Relentless effort otherwise known as creeping stalking. Making woman uncomfortable. Terrible plan.

Need help talking to ladies? Get a life
And im not saying that as like a dis. Like go do things you enjoy. Things that make up who you are. Have fun being you. The right person eventually will come along and see you enjoying yourself and want to enjoy your common interests together.
If this doesnt work youre doing something worng

 

I'm gonna put it simple. Don't be an idiot, don't be genuinely rude for no reason, don't be a thirsty mofo and you'll be fine in the now and the long run. Some people.

 

I chase the fkn paper dog

I also post in "the real you" thread so everybody knows im getting to the fkn cheddar

 

1. Stop caring. Gain aesthetics. mire yourself and still dont care. Being single is the most freedom youll ever have in your life. Imagine being stuck in a marriage thats boring af, but forced to stay because of the kids. How messed up would that be- fking up your life or fking up your kids lives. Stuck between a rock and a hard place.

2. legit dont 'pursue' women theyre not objects for you to obtain. relationships develop out of friendships and one night stands develop out of MUTUAL physical attraction. No such thing as playing hard to get, if shes disinterested, fuck the fuck off and leave her alone. they have it hard as it is with men feeling entitled to sex dont add to the problem

 

Demonstrate value
Engage physically
Nuture dependence
Neglect emotionally
Inspire hope
Separate entirely

 

Send them my favorite futanari hentai

 

I've spent most of my time just waiting for someone to come to me, even though it's probably highly unlikely that'll ever happen. Every time I've ever tried to pursue women (even in the most polite and non-sexual way possible) it has never ended well. I almost always look for someone who has the same interests and a good personality, but even then it seems like I always manage to make them lose interest within the first week of talking, or in the case of online, typing. It seems like most of the women I've pursued get mad or offended over something trivial when my ADHD starts to show. I have a bad habit of oversharing and rambling on in-depth about nerdy things for hours without realizing that they probably don't care. It usually ends in me either getting ghosted or ignored afterward.

On the flip-side, there have been several times where women (mostly co-workers) pursued me first, but in nearly every situation they either already had a boyfriend that they were trying to replace, had 3 kids, or were just looking for a sugar daddy. In all of the above situations, I'm just gonna have to say no. I had a best friend who asked me out on Valentine's day about 6 years ago. She was kinda a nerd who was obsessed with The Legend of Zelda and most things concerning Nintendo games and anime; pretty much the perfect match for me. While I accepted her offer to go out to lunch, I didn't go as far as to make any moves such as asking her to be my girlfriend. She was having trouble with her guy at the time, and gave me clear indications that she was done with him and had a lot of interest in me, but despite all of this it still felt wrong so I did nothing. Fast-forward nearly 6 years and she just got married recently to that same guy she was having issues with back then, so I guess it all worked out well for her in the end anyway.

TLDR: From my experience, you're damned if you do and damned if you don't. Some people probably just have more luck than others.

 

It might sound like a cliche, but just be yourself!
Women aren't special creatures, they're humans as well.
Just be a genuine and comfortable person to be around :3

 

donald trump has a nice way of getting women XD

 

oh ffs. kids don't do this

 

Get to lvl 200 and you're good really

Smiling might help as well

 

Looking for a comprehensive guide
just kidding

 

I usually ask them if they like the weeknd and if they don't, that's generally a red flag

 

This is going to sound cliche but...

Be positive and be yourself. People naturally gravitate toward good/positive things. If you're being yourself from the beginning, there will be less expectation and less disappointment later on.

Act with confidence but be open to opposing opinions- do not confuse confidence with cockiness. You're naturally going to disagree, man or woman, on something eventually. It creates a world of a difference if the person you're pursuing knows you listen and acknowledge their thoughts.

One last major thing: Nice guys really do finish last. Now I don't mean you should go out and being a jerk to get yourself a girl (ironically this works surprisingly well on some people but those relationships never last) but how often do you hear girls talk to a male friend like "you're going to make your future girlfriend very happy" or "I wish I could find someone as nice as you" and you're standing there like HELLO!? I'M HERE AND SINGLE!
"Being nice" is a mask that a guy puts on and wants to play it safe. He believes he will get what he wants if he is nice to girls. He gives as much as he can, whether that be love, money, or attention, in hopes that he would get something in return. You need to learn how to integrate the "nice guy" personality into your own but don't let it define who you are. Some girls are evil and know they can get you to do whatever they want and will capitalize on that and lead you on without any intention of giving something in return (JUICEWRLD, rip, said it best, "Who knew evil girls had the prettiest face?"). You might think you're pursuing them and it's working but in reality, you're just a puppet. If you can find a girl who genuinely enjoys their time with you (and not just because you're nice), it will become natural for you on how to pursue them.

 

Not only what BunnySenpai said, Ill add some personal experiences.

1- If you want to find someone, the first person you need to find is yourself. I dont care, this is the cliche of cliche of mothafucking cliche ever said, because its true. You need to know what you like, and see where it fits in other persons! Like myself: Ive tried one night stands, and guess what? Im not that kind of guy, because I need some connection. But thats me, and I learned a lot with it, and it definetly helped me with my relationships;
2- You dont find food inside your house, unless you go to the supermarket, right? So its the same with any relationship - you wont find it inside your house (GENERALLY). Me, anon, If I want to go and find someone, I just need to go out, build some "social muscle memory", of what to do in most of the cases, and know if someone is into me or not.
3- If you dont ask, you wont get it. If you want, you need to work your ass to get it. So, you see someone attractive, and you want to ask he/she out. So... GO THERE AND ASK IT! Yes, it takes time for you to be more natural, but there isnt any easier path, Im sorry
4- STAY HOME, BECAUSE COVID-19
5- Its different with everyone. Im sorry, there is a good guide of "how to", but never a definetive algorithm. Understand the advices you read here, but dont make them your "rule book of perfection"
6- Try. Try. HAVE FUN. Try. Remember when you were a child, and you were so ashamed to ask you parent for a candy? How do you feel about it today? It will be how you will feel 10 years later from now on. So just go, shame yourself trying, but try.

 

Honestly, if you have to try to get a girl. Your doing it wrong. Let nature do its thing. Go out and try new things. be real with people and do you. ultimately if your trying to get a girl and you get her, when you stop trying and start being yourself it will end. Be natural and when it happens, it will be better