I donated almost a week ago and created a post in the Donations & Donation Support forum thread and still no donator control panel or icon. I also made a request for a name change and previously requested the donator icon on the shout box but still seems like I'm being ignored.
Same with me. Mine's a bit over one week. No reply, though the thread indicates its been viewed 10 times, it doesn't say who viewed it. Either way, still no action taken or replies.
Sometimes the staff gets backtracked on work because they have a lot of things to keep up with. I'm certain that they haven't forgotten about your issues and they are just working in order of first come, first serve. It shouldn't be too much longer guys!