I have a few questions about the whitelisting, the first being how long would we have to wait for whitelisting and second being are we allowed to vote while we wait for the whitelist, if so can my brother and I just do one vote per day? Any response would be great!
It will take however long an admin takes to process it, but it should be fairly quick since we only need proof of it. As for your 2nd question, no. You both can't vote prior to gaining whitelist approval. Until it is approved, you both have to decide who'll vote on which day (or just do it alternatively).
