How do you persue women?

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by RubenRed, Dec 8, 2017.

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To women: do you prefer making the first move?

  1. Yes if I can get what I want

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  2. No, it's too scary

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  1. FireHeart
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    Usually I show them my godly attack gear such as but not limited to my FS stompers and 8 att wg. If that doesn't work well sucks they are probably cat fishing you. So, u dodged a bullet nice one brofist my dude. You're already a pro so get out there and remember there's always more fish in the sea

    For more tips and step by step tutorials u can buy my book/autobiography on getting maplestory wifeys when it comes out
     
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    Anyone who plays Maplestory pursuing women lmao

    Great joke
     
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    I see you too are a seducer of many women. I await this game-breaking autobiography
     
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    I actually wrote my thesis on this subject. The relationship stages, possibilities and the attractions. Basically what attracts women in men. After carefully theoritising it, surveying, then testing/experimenting with different types of my male friends in various places to random women (of different ages) for 8 months men started successfully interacting and "picking up" women which were amazing results :D

    I'm at work right now and cannot really type this entire thing here unfortunately but if needed sure let me know and would love to share my findings :D
     
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    Would be interesting to hear more about the research methods and results :o
     
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    Get gud with Halkie (I'm female, I know things and stuff);

    >Be handsome
    >If not handsome, then atleast 4/10 in looks and you're good to go.
    >Be charming, learn how to flirt.
    >If ugly af, let's hope you're interesting and have a great sense of humour.
    >Smell good and dress good, be tall (or atleast avg height. Short guys aren't as attractive)
    >Have a hobby that is interesting.
    >Don't be a creep.
    >Do NOT send d*ckpics.
    >Use decent grammar and spelling (how to get gurls if they won't understand you?!)

    >Find a female (make sure you keep to only 1 at a time)
    >Get knowledge about said female. How old is she? Where is she from? Family? School/work?
    >Is she single? If not. Go for another female, one whom isn't close friends to the first one. Otherwise you may look desperate.
    >However, if she's single, make sure to mention that you're single as well (if there is a spark of chemistry or interest later on, she will be sure to remember this).
    >Get to know her hobbies/interests, try to find something you both like, whether it's games, food, music, movies, activities, etc.
    The more you have in common, the higher chance of longer conversations and getting to know each other more. Make sure to mention stuff about yourself as well, this is not a Q/A-date.

    >If it gets awkward or/and you guys aren't talking as much as you did at start (assuming you're talking online to keep in touch (also assuming you're talking about females irl??)) she may be a busy person irl and don't have time atm, or she may have changed her mind about you. So either you wait for a few days and see what's up with her, or you let go and move on.
    >If conversation goes smoothly, just keep up the interest. Maybe slap in abit of innocent flirting (without being creepy)
    >Don't be the one to always start the conversation. Let her take some initiative as well. Otherwise it might give off a stalker-vibe.
    >Don't be needy. Seriously.
    >Make sure she has a good time, laugh together, be dorky, be serious and deep together.
    >Step it up with the flirting, when she starts flirting back. Get more serious with it, mention that she's good looking now and then, tell her you like her company, etc. Basically charm her.

    I haven't mentioned everything, but perhaps it's a start. Perhaps it makes no sense at all since I'm typing this at 10am (being up all night).
    I hope it's not utter crap and that it helps a little(?).
    Good luck Fam o/
     
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    My current relation is actually thanks to a chat room almost 15 years ago (I'm 28). Back with AIM was the big thing. Ended up meeting and talking and had a lot of general interests but avoided the whole address and thing. We just stayed true to how we were, big nerds and gothic phase (I still cringe when I see my old pics).
    We were friends and expressed interest but the distance (I was in NC, she in FL) but kinda fell out of talking, would catch up like once a month or so but usually long periods of nothing. Fast forward to about 3 years ago we both have jobs and working, both were still single and decided we are both adults and can make our own choice, she flew out December of 2015 and we had a good time. I flew out to meet her parents August of 2016, then flew back out January of this year to help her pack and move in with me. Been happily living together for almost a year now.
     
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    thx liam

    this wayyyyy.jpg
     
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    You talk to them like a friend, make them feel comfortable around you. There will be a time that comes where you will look at each other and there will be a lot of tension, this is where you lean in and whisper in hear ear "ayy bb u won sum fok?"

    It works 100% of the time 67% of the time
     
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    I try not to pursue women (I'm 20, and saving it for when I'm older and can make a calm decision on who I want to marry). In the past however, most of the women I pursued ended up with me, because of my persistence/confidence.
    Don't bother with flings though, they all end in the same way. Wait until you have some temperance, and find the girl you're meant to be with. Being restrained and not thirsty also attracts women - either "go for the kill" or don't act at all.
     
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    This is just my opinion, but I feel that if you are seriously pursuing a girl that you very much like, you probably shouldn't address them as honey. I'm sure you can imagine, but, in reality, girls don't really really like to be treated as anything less than human. If you wouldn't talk to your friends in that manner, then you don't have any business talking to women in that manner lol. But ayy let me get blog link though; truly, i'm looking for pointers!
     
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    As a woman, I think somehow man should make a move first and most of time. But also, I am the person who will try my best to have anything and anyone that I want. Regardless on genders, we are free to chase and pursue person that we like / love. :3

    During 2016, me and @Waterlemon were introduced by a Maple friend in MapleRoyals. We both had bad times : I liked a bastard who is in this server (And now he's a staff in other server) and Lemon liked a girl who appeared and vanished in the game. Lemon was first being "thick-face" approaching me in game from day to day. Then, he requested to get my phone number and video/voice chat me almost daily. He was a little annoying. HE WAKED ME UP DURING MY HOLIDAY MORNING!!! At that time I thought he was trying to control me and my life!

    Then, one day Lemon said that he liked me in a big round-a-bout and would like to try out a relationship with me. Then, he said "Today is our anniversary!" I'm like "WHAT DA ****, SINCE WHEN I PROMISED YOU" but I did not say anything just let everything go itself. (I was still moody after being heartbroken by the bastard) From time by time, I tried to find a time to break up with Lemon. But I felt that I didn't want him to disappear in my daily life too. Eventually I did not say anything.

    It has been 1 year+ for now. We've been travelling together, meeting each other friends and family, playing games (other mobile games) together, we plan for our future. We are still in long distance relationship. Sometimes, 8 hours flight to reach another one, 12 hours or more if bounding and overnight, we sacrifice our time and money, just to meet up. We both want to fight for it. We both call each other everyday and keep each other fine every single moment. We love each other a lot today, and plan for a better future together.
     
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    Welcome to 2018. Also, don't call them girls, apparently that's sexist now as well. As a matter of fact, you probably shouldn't call them anything until you ask them their preferred pronouns. Also remember, some people are gender fluid, so they randomly change their genders all the time. Some people even only identify certain parts of their body as male/female. Some people don't even identify as human, but as animals. And of course, the only way this makes sense, is fucking magic, or shape shifters. You miss the 90's yet?
     
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    I show them my signature move.
     
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    dear lord why is the title still "persue"
     
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    If you're interested, the gender doesn't matter. It's not a ''man's job'' to advance, don't complain as a lady if you're single when you refuse to make moves because you fear getting rejected. Being passive is very unattractive.

    I basically seduced my bf ;)
     
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    With your trusty ski mask?
     
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    Gender roles exist for a reason. (most) Women like (physically attractive) men who take initiative and have the self-confidence to put themselves at risk.
     
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    Being pursued by men is frequently uncomfortable. Unwanted conversation, unwanted touch, even physical intimidation. I think the latter is largely unintentional, but it happens nonetheless
     

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