How do you persue women?

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To women: do you prefer making the first move?

  1. Yes if I can get what I want

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  2. No, it's too scary

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    yes, let nature do its work. release your bioluminescent pheromones to signal to potential mates that you are single and ready to mingle.
     
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    I think the most important aspect of any relationship is having a good understanding of the other person. Once you know that person well, you'll naturally understand their comfort zone, how they express interest, how they receive love, how to communicate with them in a meaningful manner, what they are looking for, etc. The whole 'be nice but not too nice, be cool but not too cold' is like that because each person is unique in their speech, their experiences, their interests, and what they want in a romantic partner. There is no one size fits all solution to this so if you are genuinely interested in someone, take the time and effort to understand them better and use that knowledge to help further your relationship with them (assuming that is also what they want). Just as no two people are the same, whether you should be active/passive, engaged/aloof, caring/disinterested really depends on how the other person responds to such. Just remember that it takes two to make a relationship work. If they aren't interested in you, don't force it to work. They probably aren't the person you are looking for.
     
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    You have to build yourself... Alot of men nowadays think you have to chase women and that they will fulfill your life. I’d say that focusing on your own life and making sure you are happy with your life has worked foolproof for me. They will chase you.
     
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    I go up to women like this dude does

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    So I didn’t read every post so delete if this is repetitive but some tips for (straight-cis) guys :p

    1. relaxxxx
    2. don’t try to be “alpha” lol
    3. also don’t try to be “beta”, just be a human lol
    4. please don’t interrupt a girl / woman mid-sentence
    5. ask about and respect boundaries
    6. smell good
    7. (and I can’t stress this enough) go to therapy and up your self care game. I guarantee you’ll become more attractive to women at the end

    okay those are my 2-cents ^_^'
     
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    I don't. It's not worth it.
     
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    Polyamorous is the way to go. Less headaches and no games.
     
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    There is no relentless effort from one side to get into a relationship, in my opinion , be respectful always and show your care and concern through actions. <3 :D
     
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    Tell her you're a big fan of Andrew Tate.
     
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    Train your booty and wear good looking pants so its visible. Also have nice hands and friendly eyes.

    Also its best to not want a relationship at all in the moment you meet. Thats how you know you really fit if you still think about it.

    Dont ever think about gettin married. Its a trap.
     
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    Some realistic advice
    1. Be yourself (be genuine, if she doesn't like your character maybe it isn't meant to be, or maybe you're an asshole)
    2. Girls like being around guys that make them feel safe. This doesn't instantly mean it's need to be a physical security/you'll white knight off the bad guys. Making a girl feel safe is just respecting boundaries and your typical good friend best practices. Obviously don't be creepy but think in between the lines for what can subtely creepy. For example you should always refrain from making weird advancements in relationships that don't start off romantically.
    3. With the latter example in my make sure that you know what you want from the start and that your intentions are clear. Don't start a friendship then try to transform it into a sexual romance. You're breaking the first two rules.
    4. It helps to have pre-established meaningful relationships with women that aren't the one you're trying to mush. You having female friends, or a good relationship with a female work co-worker that is openly known lets that female you're pursuing know you're not going to drag her back to your pad and cut her into pieces that you'll feed to your dogs.
    5. A lack of confidence or self esteem is not exclusive to men, keep that in mind that a lot of women are just as nervous as you are. The horrible part of being a person is we all have expectations and pressures placed on us by societal precedents and stereotypes, so don't shoot at their boat because we're standing in it too.
    6. Don't be a welcome mat

    Finally, the number 1 thing I've heard from all women in my life, students, friends, family, & wife: men are scary.
     
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